Friend dating my ex husband
', to 'has she just been waiting for him to break it off so she can step in? But the question that most resonated in my mind was how could a supposed good friend do something like this to me?
In a way I'm not surprised by my ex's actions and I don't particularly blame him for doing this but for a friend to do something like this is incomprehensible to me.
At first, we got in a huge fight and I thought we would never be friends again.
Then I missed her, we made up, and I tried to pretend I was okay with her dating him. Hearing her talk about him was torture for me, being with them together was even harder.
There is a great comfort in having someone who knows exactly who you are, good and bad, and just you. Maybe you’ll get answers to the questions that have been haunting you.
In fact, it started with one that could have come straight out of a movie—which is appropriate since a movie star brought us together.
Afterwards, Mel's manager Howard asked me out for a drink.
We had a lot of laughs, but Mel got serious on the way home—telling me I should marry Howard and move to California. Three months later, I Mel didn't remain a big part of our lives, but the laughs did. Spoiler alert: Life wasn't all laughs and the surprises weren't all happy.